and the One who walks with me on it.

Thursday, May 08, 2014

Do You Ever Hate Yourself?

       Right now I do.  Ten minutes ago I realized I missed meeting up with one of my newer friends.  We haven’t been able to see each other for a few months due to her work and I go and miss the first opportunity to see her.  And I really wanted to spend time with her.  I’d be easier to type this if I could stop crying.  (Yep, I cry pretty easily.)  Her forgiveness won’t make it any easier to face her again.  In fact, I dread the next conversation…

       It’s not that I really hate myself, but my failings.  I forget things, especially short term memory things.  Last week I forgot to pick up my son from his bus stop after school- I’ve only been doing it for four years.  The scary part is he didn’t even cross my mind.  So today I forgot my much anticipated coffee date with my friend that we just arranged yesterday!  Why, oh why, oh why does it have to be this way?

       In case you wonder, I’ve been to the doctor and even a specialist, and they can’t find anything wrong.  That actually makes this worse because there seems to be no reason.  It just makes me feel stupid.  Overall, not a good place to be.  That’s why I’m keeping this short and giving out some Scriptures that hold me together at times like this:

Blessed be God, even the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and the God of all comfort, He comforting us in all our trouble… 2Cr. 1:3,4
The LORD is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit. Ps. 34:18
When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and through the rivers, they shall not overflow you. When you walk through the fire, you shall not be burned; nor shall the flame kindle on you. Is. 43:2
My soul, be silent only to God; for my hope is from Him. He only is my rock and my salvation; He is my strong tower; I shall not be shaken. In God is my salvation and my glory; the rock of my strength; my hiding-place is in God. Ps. 62:5-7

And God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes; and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor crying, neither shall there be any more pain: for the former things are passed away. Rv. 21:4 KJV (I hope earthly embarrassments also pass away…)

One prayer: Lord, use ALL my failings however You can for Your glory