and the One who walks with me on it.

Tuesday, May 20, 2014

Fear of Dad

       Albert (my hubby) grew up on a farm with only one field between him and the one room grade school he attended.  The benefits were hot lunches and short walk to school, but the negatives were no snow days and being the only grade 8 student.  Anyway, before he started school (grade one in those days) he ran through the field with his little tool box one day to bring home a prize. 

This before a holy God...
       In those days, most county kids rode their bikes to school; a few bikes which had colourful tassels that captivated him, coming out of the handle bars.  So Albert took his little saw and cut those tassels off, then dodged through the field to get home without getting caught.  He hid those tassels under his bed but unfortunately didn’t realize the evidence he left behind- his little saw.

       The teacher dealt with it, Mom dealt with it, I’m sure his brother gave him grief, but none of those were as bad as waiting for Dad to get home from work.  Sure enough, Dad didn’t speak much, but the spanking he received put a little more fear in him for breaking rules.  And he didn’t get to keep the tassels…

Who is the man who fears the LORD? God will teach (direct, show, instruct) him the path he should choose.  His soul shall dwell at ease; and his seed shall inherit the earth. Ps. 25:12 ISV, 13 MKJV
Therefore, since we are receiving a kingdom that cannot be shaken, let us have grace, by which we may serve God acceptably with reverence and godly fear*, for also, "Our God is a consuming fire." Hb. 12:28,29 (*caution, dread)

       Fear isn’t always a bad thing.  To fear not only means to be afraid but to reverence.  In Albert’s case, it was both respect and afraid to do wrong with his Dad.  Somehow I think today we try to revere God, but fail to be afraid to do wrong.  “Oh, God will forgive me…”  God is a holy God (1Sm. 2:2) and one day judgment will fall, either here on earth in the form of natural consequences to our choices (ex. fornication-pregnancy) by God- on the Judgment Seat (2Cr. 5:10) or the Great White Throne (Rv. 20:11-15)

all shall stand before the judgment seat of Christ. …each one of us will give account concerning himself to God. Rm. 14:10,12
every idle word, whatever men may speak, they shall give account of it in the day of judgment. Mt. 12:36
For we must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ, so that each one may receive the things done through the body, according to that which he has done, whether good or bad. 2Cr. 5:10
each one's work shall be revealed. For the Day shall declare it, because it shall be revealed by fire; and the fire shall try each one's work as to what kind it is.If anyone's work shall be burned up, he shall suffer loss. But he shall be saved, yet so as by fire. 1Cr. 3:13,15
In Rv. 20:11-15, those who are unsaved (not true Christians) are judged.

Or this...

       June Cleaver and many other tv parents used the line often, “wait til your Father gets home” as a threat to curb bad behaviour.  In our case, it’s “wait til you stand before the judgment seat of Christ.”  What if we lived our lives thinking ‘would Jesus approve of me doing this’ before we did something?  I’m sure He wouldn’t approve of where my thoughts go sometimes.  And idle words…  How much will I have to account for?  How much of what I did will be burned up as worthless?

At the very least I should treat God with great respect but also consider that sin is judged and do what I can to become or remain pure.

And everyone who has this hope on him purifies himself,
even as that One is pure.
1Jh. 3:3